Aimfull

Everyone in life has a aim, ambition. But many could not fullfil it...
In my school times my mother used to tell me "when u will become young I will make u an engineer."
but It doesn't became my destiny.
However, today I am happy with new goals but the way i came here was not expected...
Friends do you know what is the reson behind the unsuccess of aims of any person...?
There are many factor responsible environmentally and personally but main factor is self confidene.
If any person lowers yours self confidence, give up his company even if he is your friend...
Confidence is such value which will bring u success automatically.
And the story of building self confidence begins from childhood.
In school days we had different classes as per different grades of student. In such pattern a kid was put in to comparison with others. Even parents also used to scold after comparison of marks of others. But the tendency to move forward and achieve the goal set by the environment was not possible due to such comparison. Some people fighted and moved further and some taken it as an impossible task after trying methods and lowered their confidence.
Today if i am thinking of toomarrow then i want to achieve all values hidden in my soul to see a better toomarrow.
And all about my aims i will achieve it.
However, my mother says, in your way of life to move forward take guidance, search for info, data etc.
But

but

but

never depend on anyone......

Friendzzzz.....!

Friendship Is Not Collection Of Friends, Its a selection Of friends, All may not be true but true which are few.... and should include you......

However many times, when I came home late after enjoying my time with my friends, My parents always scolded me, always warned me to come home early or leave the friends.....

Some people think friends are only for enjoying, some think they are for sharing information, knowledge... some friendship are for some reasons...

But Mine is different I have many friends .... earlier I used to make a list.... but now it is somhow short........

I think Friendship is such a relation that is beyond social, emotional and personal bonding.

All people in the Earth are born direct with some relations, that is our relations with our parents, gaurdians.... But such relation long last due to a reason that, its our blood relation....

God has gifted us such relation so that in future we could get any study on it....and we thus form the relation called Friendship which is our experiment on god gifted theory of relations.... Friendship is not created in a day or with anyone we want to. Friendship needs the feel to have friends. and the thing that caries friendship longlasting is understanding...... matching of feelings not important, but both mutual understanding and feelings for each other brings such true relation long lasting only by the factor called TRUST.... If u Trust then you will have success in any thing you want......

So friends, If you have trust we can establish such deep true relation which will make help in developing everyone life......beter and beter...........!

Motive

In life there are many purpose to doing things, but whats the purpose of life,,, no one knows... ????.....
The purpose of life is to live with purpose....
But one thing always should be in mind that...
In life if u thought of doing or performing good and right work and for that if you are bounded to choose bad or worst path, go for it. But while moving these stairs any problem appear, you should be rigid, fixed to your motive.

For example if you wish and want to work on end of corruption at any sector, and for that if you need to live and support with corrupt officials then, move ahead.
Here you must be enough strong, clear about your motto of doing right and good work.
And one most important thing your motive always should be of performing good work, duty and services in all walks of life and not for position...

Heart break

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you..

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won''t make you cry.

3. Just because someone doesn''t
love you the way you want them to, doesn''t mean they don''t love you with all they have.

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can''t have them.

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

8. Don''t waste your time on a man / woman, who isn''t willing to waste their time on you.

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we
finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

10. Don''t cry because it is over, smile because it happened

11. There''s always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.

13. Don''t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

REMEMBER:
WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.

Have You Ever..?

Have you ever felt,
the cold and lifeless hand of an infant,
gazed into their unblinking eyes,
and observed the face of death,
when masked in bittersweet innocence?

Have you ever touched your dreams,
and felt the simplistic joy,
of feeling them become reality,
only to abandon them,
for reasons you cannot explain?

Have you ever watched your family,
who once shared the greatest of loves,
suffer an unforgettable and unforgivable tragedy,
that will slowly, painfully, and inevitably,
tear them all apart?

Do you know, firsthand,
the evil that resides deep within the heart of every man,
every woman, and every child?
Have you seen its face as it randomly seeks,
a soul to torment and destroy?

Do you know the darker side of life,
the one that awakens you,
in the still of the night,
crying to the unknowable God's,
‘Save me from myself. '?

Does your heart constantly question,
whether humanity is obtainable,
in a world corrupted with suffering,
and where war,
is the favoured solution for peace?

If you really want to know me,
and understand the forces that compel me to move on,
then take these questions,
and take this pain,
for this who I am.

Diversity In India

India has a history from thousands of year ago. People from different regions of the world came to India. They became one with the Indian culture .From this has evolved the composite Indian Culture.
All of us living in different parts of the country are Indians. Though there is a variety in our languages, literature and art, as Indians, we all are one. It is this diversity
Indian Languages: Many languages are spoken in India. Hindi & amp; English are the two languages used in our country. Marathi is the state language of Maharashtra.
Festival Celebrations: People such as Hindus, Muslims, Buddhists, Sikhs, Christians, Jains, and Parsis etc belonging to different live in India. Different festivals are celebrated in India with lots of joys & happiness. Agriculture is the main occupation in our country . Many of our festivals are related to agriculture and environment. In Maharashtra, Dassera, Diwalil, Holi in Punjab Baisakhi, in Andhra Pradesh Eruvak Punnam, in Tamil nadu Pongal & in Kerala Onam are celebrated. Ramzaam – Id, Christmas, Buddha Pornima, Samvatsari, and Pateti are also important festivals. What ever religious festival all Indians happily participate in it. They greet one another, It increase the feeling of unity among them.
Costumes & food: We find diversity in the clothing and food habits of Indians. Clothing depends upon the climate, physical feature & traditions of the respective regions. There is diversity in our foods habits too, due to climatic conditions crops and other geographical factors. For e.g. the people of Punjab eat dal – roti whereas people living in the coastal areas eat rice and fish.
Shelter : In respective of constructions of houses also there is diversity . In the rural areas, many houses have wattle and daub walls. Some houses have tiled roofs. In areas of heavy rainfall, the houses have slopping roofs .In the places with scanty rains have houses with terraced roofs .In big cities, multi – storey buildings are seen.
Sports & games: Many kinds of games are played in India since ancient times. We play different games such as tip – cat, chess, wrestling, phugadi, malkhamb, lagori, kabadi & kho-kho .Modern games are such as hockey and cricket are the two popular games played in India. Sports & games have an important place in out life. They help values like co-operation & solidarity Sport spirit it is more important than winning or losing.
Art: Different arts such as dance, handicrafts, painting and sculpture have flourished in India. Since days of old , India had different styles of music. There are two main styles of Indian classical music. They are Hindustani music & Carnatic music. There are many folk music played in India .In India, the tradition of dances is very ancients. We have different variety of folk dances some ancient times; various types of handicrafts have developed in India. Artistic vases baskets and other decorative articles are prepared. The art of painting & sculpture has long tradition. It is originated from the Stone age period. For e.g. Ajanta Ellora caves
Our country have rich historical heritage. Historical monuments are the wealth of our country. Very few countries in the world have such history and ancients culture.

By Premjit

HappYness

This is the real treazure........But when we have it we do not make most of it.......

A Day, Night, Sun, Water, Moon, and Happiness Needs No Money To Buy. A Happiest Person Do Not Necessarilly Have The BEst OF All, He Simply Appreciate What He Find On The Way And Is Happy.

Mahatma Gandhiji says "Happiness is when what you think, What you do, and what you say are in harmony"

Generally dream of what you most enjoy, go where you want to go, do what ever makes you happy, Be with who ever makes you smile, be whom you want to be, laugh as much as you breath, love as long as you live, You have but only one life so achieve what you want to achieve....!

Do you Know whats the best gift to give to make some one happy and loving one.......?

Its a Hope



Then Common Now,,, Begin To Write OFF your Sad Times In to The SAND, And A Even Very Small and Big Happy Times In To Rock Stone.

The Father Of Nation..

Mahatma Gandhi was once asked what he thought about Western Civilization. His response was : "I Think It would be a good Idea"

"The greatness of nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated."

" You must not lose faith in humanity, Humanity is an Ocean; If the few drops of oceans are dirty, the Ocean does not become dirty."

" The only devils in this world are those running arround inside our own hearts. and that is where our battle should be fought."

" If all christians acted like christ, the whole would be christian."

"The Freedom is not a Freedom, If there is no freedom to make mistakes."

" Indians will stagger Humanity without shedding a drop of blood."

" An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind."

"You must be the change you wish to see the world."

" To believe in something and not live it, is dishonest."

What You Think Of......?

Dr. ABDUL KALAM, President Of India.
Father Of India's Space, Missile And Satellite Programme And Author Of
"India 2020 Vision"

"I have Three Vision for India"

In 3000 years ago of our history people from all over the world have come and invaded us, captured our lands, Conqured our minds, From Alexander Onwards. The Greeks, The Turks, The Moguls, The Portuguese, The British, The French, The Dutch, All Of them came and ruled us and took over what was ours.
Yet We have not done this to any other nation. We have not conquered anyone. We have not grabbed thier land, thier culture, thier history and tried to enforce our way of life on them.

Why?

Because we respect the freedom of others. That is why my first vision is that of Freedom
I believe that India got its first vision of this in 1857, when we started the war of Independence. It is this freedom that we must protect and nurture and build on. If we are not free, no one will respect us..


My second vision for India is Development. For fifty years we have been a developing nation... It is time we see ourselves as a developed nation

I have Third vision. India must stand up to the world. Because I believe that unless India stands up to the world, no one will respect us. Only strength respects strength. we must be strong not only as a military power but also as an economic power. Both must go hand in hand...."


Dr Kalam always tried to make efforts to make India a Super power. and they also believe that If the power which will make India a fast forward developing nation beyond expectations is YOUTH power. So common, Its not the job, work, duty or service. Its opportunity......

Whats your Goal

Once one of a person got passed in his last year graduation and was searching for Job. Then he got call from one of the company he applied for and the interview date was fixed. And at proper date and time that guy reached the company's office and he was called in. However firstly he was asked about his name, background, qualifications etc. Next the interviewer asked him for which post have you applied? Interviewee replied "software executive". Interviewer "but you are not from that educational background". Interviewee "ya but i could do it" .
Interviewer "no not possible".
Interviewee "sir any other job in your company suiting my CV".
Interviewer "ok you r fixed then, u will be assistant manager, but i will pay you 2000 salary".
Interviewee "no sir i need minimum 20000".
Interviewer "ok then done. But your job will be to carry all local garbage from truck and dump it nearby village".
Interviewee "wat. No i need 20000 for post assistant manager".
Interviewer "ok given, now what you want to be in future in our company".
Interviewee "CEO"
Interviewer "ohh...! so in how much time".
Interviewee "5 years".
Interviewer "for being promoted as manager you will good performance for 3 years. And even needs a MBA Degree. So How Come you think of being CEO in 5 years...without knowing your goal how come you can come here for interview. Is it for wasting for our time"........ So friends that the story about what you goal should be. Goal can be anything but it should be realistic. A commerce graduate cannot think of being doctor.............. and even reading a book for passing the exam is not a goal. Goal is what you can achieve by challenging way.

Goal is that achievement in life where you find..... yourself..... and so don't take more time to know yourself.....

Story Reminds Me

In our childhood we read many stories..... so one of it I will again bring to your mind which will really encourage you.... to move ahead. Once upon a time in a pond nearby garden there lived six frogs.. Everybody had a quarel that who is much stronger then after some sort of time everyone comes to conclusive decision that to have a race. They decide that the one who will reach early at the peak of the hill which was situated close to pond will be the winner and will be awarded with the title Stronger Angel. And thus race begin everybody starts climbing fast. the people nearby garden also starts watching such unbelievable race and starts enjoying it.... After sometime when some of frogs reach 30% of the hill they get tired, and become slow. One of the person by nearby crowd then utter "I hope they can't do.." After 50% all frog become exhausted and some left the race but one of them is trying always... Again from the crowd " Its not in their capacity" one again utters "The climate is so hot, they gonna die ater sometime". The frogs listen to this and gets frustrated and also quit the race when they are at 90%. But One frog was still trying too hard... And at last Only One reaches the highest peak, all people starts praising the Winner.. But The fact the winner who reached the peak was deaf.. And because he couldn't hear the rest he become the winner. So Such story when I used to tell among people then from crowd also who didn't liked the story utter question that "If the frog was deaf then how could he listen about the race..." So don't listen any negative from any one... It will Lower your self confidence..... However take care

Email

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Think once

This story was told to me by one of friend. Once a time a father was teaching his son that one should lie, one should speak truth always, one should not cheat anyone, then at a time anyone knock the door. The father tell his wife to see who is at the door, the wife says "its our newspaper boy, may have come for collection." the husband replies "no, no.. Tell him I am not at home, come next time." Then what a waste it is, just few mins ago he teached his son to speak truth. And will that son ever speak truth always. Teachings, speaking doesn't matters, what matters is that our application. Mahatma Gandhiji never tried teach anyone anything, the followers automatically got teached by their work, and by their behaveour.

You Are Really Special

Do You seen any poor, beggar roadside, When U see them what comes first to your mind... Do U put hands into your pockets or think he is beggar because he is not trying to work, you may even try to help him, feed him..... But do you ever thought why You are not in such condition, why you got such hard working parents or nature to fulfill your needs, why u got all resources, helpful encouraging environment, friends etc. Because You are really special one for god.... God has sent you in such environment because he has some Expectations from you. So In life Do u think Are u fulfilling the expectations. Does home to office, office to home will really fulfill your duty for god, does your small prayer will bring god closer to you....... No... Never. Come on guys Its Now or Never.... You need to work for the lord. And Service To Lord; Is Service To Mankind, Humanity......!